The Dutch name for 31 December is not New Year’s Eve but Old Year’s Day. It’s not until 12:01 on 1 January that you even wish people a happy or lucky new year. Before then, you just hope that they have a good changing of the year. (In theory, at least. As with many cultural things, American influence continues to creep in.)

I didn’t notice the distinction during my first time celebrating the changing year. I was too overwhelmed by the fireworks. The city government arranged fireworks over the IJ, but Dutch tradition had people setting off professional-grade fireworks throughout the city. They were ramping up all evening, peaking at midnight and tapering off around 1 AM. It’s hard to think of linguistic nuances when children in tiny safety goggles are running into the street to set off mini-explosions as cars and bikes try to avoid them.

Amsterdam tries to change New Year’s parties

It was fascinating the first year, but the absurdity was quickly brought home. Every year, there were stories of injuries due to fireworks. In 2021, Amsterdam banned the sale of fireworks, much to the relief of some Amsterdammers. Seriously, what measure ever gets 77% approval amongst the opinionated Dutch?

Every year since then, however, it’s obvious how many people aren’t following that law. The city tries to combat the impulse by making its own beautiful celebrations. This year, the city has a large party in Museumplein, boasting “ecofriendly” fireworks and electric lights. Other neighborhood centers like Nelson Mandelapark and Sloterplas have similar parties to try to entice Amsterdammers into celebrating together – without blowing things up.

We changed our New Year’s Eve rituals

After a couple of years reveling in the chaos of amateur fireworks on every canal, my partner and I decided to embrace the idea of Old Year’s Eve. We didn’t make resolutions for the year to come or even party intensely to welcome it in. We sat with our pictures, notebooks, Instagram feed, and – yes – a bottle of good wine. We marveled at the fortune we’d shared and the people we’d met. We remembered trips that surprised us, sights that amazed us, and stories that made us laugh.

We didn’t recount our sorrows, but they hung in the air above us, bittersweet and now weightless. By the time we went to the canals to watch our neighbors light up the sky, we’d truly celebrated the year that was ending. For the first time in my life, I started the new year in knowing gratitude for the one that’s passed. The year that followed was a difficult one, but it was in some ways made easier by that ritual. I knew that when we looked back at the end of it, we would have so much to celebrate.

Badass Tours looks back on 2024 and forward to 2025

Just like that year, this year has had its challenges. Some really scary things happened in the world, and each one of us dealt with some personal challenges. At the same time, we have so much to be grateful for. Everyone at Badass Tours had some cool travel experiences this year. We were lucky enough to find not one, not two, but THREE amazing new guides, one of whom helped us build a new Rijksmuseum tour. We performed at Pakhuis de Zwijger, the Holocaust Museum, and Amsterdam Museum. Badass founder Elyzabeth was even invited to join the advisory group for Amsterdam Museum’s Women of Amsterdam project, where she wrote an ode to one of our tour subjects, Katherine Lescailje.

The coming year is sure to have its challenges, but we already know it will bring exciting partnerships. We’re offering queer heroes tours for OUTbound, Jewish history tours for Uniworld, and immigration tours for TUI and National Geographic. More importantly, we’ve somehow managed to find more truly amazing storytellers, so our team of guides will be even stronger.

Celebrate the year

In a time when we are always on the go, always looking forward to the next new thing, it can be incredibly fulfilling to look back. The Oudejaarsavond, or Evening of the Old Year, can be a time to look back on the past twelve months. You can rediscover happy moments that slipped by and successes that got lost in the tumult of day-to-day life. More importantly, you can start your new year with a blank slate and a full heart. It feels better than any resolution.